not sure i believe them….


Today was a shitty day. First because I had to change three crap filled nappies before 11:00 (what have we been feeding him!?)
The second is that we had to have Vic’s family cat put down 🙁 Zebbie was 16 years old and has been really sick for the last four days. So much so that he would wet himself in his basket and not have the energy to move out of his mess.
The vet said that it was probably a heart problem as he could hear a heart murmur and that he was retaining loads of fluid in his abdominal cavity. Anyway, he was put down at about 19:00 tonight 🙁
Bye bye Zebbie.
Saffy is fast asleep in this shot! I was at my desk working and she just walked up my stomach and fell asleep like this – crazy cat!

First of all Happy New Year everyone! Given what’s going on in Asia I think that we can all be that little bit more thankful as another year comes around. Talking about the Tsunami I got an email through work saying that if we supplied proof of donation to an aid fund they would match it dollar for dollar to the Red Cross in our home country. Nice one Dell! Vic and I had just given 100 bucks to the Red Cross so one receipt scan later and they had another 100! Not quite up to the 10 million USD that Michael Schumacher gave but then I’m on less of a salary
In other news I felt the baby move for the first time the night before last! I have to be really quiet and press quite hard but the feeling was still there! Cool!
It was our four year wedding anniversary last night and we went out on a date to
Istanbul, one of the oldest Turkish eateries in Wellington. Very nice it was although we spent at least 50% of our time trying out baby names ![]()
Saffy has settled in really well over the last couple of days and is now eating like a trooper. She didn’t eat much at all for the first 36 hours but I think that may have been due to the major changes in her environment.
As you can see she has made herself at home and her and Max are getting on pretty well. He’s a bit wary as she has scratched him a few times when they are playing and she has this habit of running up you which isn’t much fun when the runner has needle-sharp claws! We are all bearing battle scars to some degree…….


A morning snooze for the two girls ![]()
Please join me in welcoming Saffy (short for Sapphire) to our family
She’s been here about 4 hours and seems to be settling in well – she’s even used her dirt box!

Well, that’s Christmas over with and now maybe I can take a breath! This is how the last few days have gone:
? Christmas eve was spent at a family friends house for our traditional Christmas eve dinner. We had a great time and Max was such a good boy seeing that he stayed up until 21:30!
? Christmas morning found Vic and I up before Max! (that’ll change in the coming years……) as my Dad was visiting at 07:00. Max woke up and wandered down just as Dad was walking in the door so that worked out well. Much present giving occurred and then it was off to my Mum’s place for breakfast (another tradition) We had a great time there and Max was, of course, the centre of attention
Midday found us at Vic’s Mum’s house for a mid afternoon Christmas dinner and another round of presents! Home at about 18:00 and Max was in bed by about 19:00
? Boxing day we had loads of people visit us for lunch so we were up at 06:30 preparing for that and trying to keep Max occupied at the same time
Another very tiring day…….
? Yesterday we spent time with various friends and then had our friend Gayle around for a barbeque. The weather for the last two days has been fantastic with fine weather and about 24C/75F rather than a mediocre grey and 18C/65F as it was on Christmas and Boxing day.
? Today we had the midwife around for a visit (everything is going well) and then some UK based friends here for lunch.
All in all a busy time and Max has been really good all through it. Given how upset his timetable has been he’s done remarkably well and been in a surprisingly good mood for most of the time.
As for presents, there were loads and I’d like to thank everyone for their generosity. One of our favourites though is a gift from my Mother that we bought on her behalf on Christmas eve:

We pick her up tomorrow
Merry Christmas everyone
Vic, Max and I wish you all a very merry Christmas and a happy and safe New Year wherever you are in the world.